Author: bishtraining

Sex educator working with young people, adults and practitioners in the UK.

Advice Hijack – My Boyfriend Is Addicted To Porn So I Left Him


An occasional column where I get so annoyed by other advice columnists that I try and give better answers (it’s not like I have enough to do) …

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Talking About Sex Problems via Spreadsheets and Reddit

You may have seen pieces online in the last few days about a husband emailing his wife a spreadsheet of all the times he has initiated sex over a 6 week period, whether they had sex and if not what her excuses were for not wanting to. (more…)

Consent, Sex Ed and Young People

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Some thoughts on where we are with consent, Sex Ed and young people, where the gaps are, how the Sex Ed that is taught can contribute to the problem and some ideas on how we can think of working with (and listening to) young people more effectively. (Aimed at practitioners)

This piece is based on a talk I gave for Gender & Sexuality Talks in May this year. The handout for this is below in case you’re finding this a bit hard to follow. It’s a bit of a long winding piece but I hope you find it useful.

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