We’ve been blogging about the recent spate of sex related shows on TV this past week over on Bad Sex Media Bingo. Check out the posts here:
We’re currently seeing a flood of programmes and related articles about sex and pornography, such as Porn on the Brain and Sex Box, as well as the sex advice columns which have become a regular feature in most national newspapers and magazines.
Those of us who work as sex researchers, sex therapists and sex educators, are aware of the vast differences in quality between the different radio and TV shows, and features, on the topic of sex. Many of them are not well grounded in the evidence around sex, relationships and sexual media. Also they often perpetuate problematic ideas about sex which we then hear from the clients and young people who we work with as counsellors or trainers.
For these reasons we decided to put together a bingo card of all the worst common messages that we see in media reporting of sex. We figured that, if people used the card, it might help them to think about the merits of the information and evidence they were viewing and reading about, as well as challenging some of the particularly common myths about sex.
For each square on the card we’ve also provided explanations about why these messages, or kinds of information, are a problem, what impact they can have on people, and how media might report these things in better ways.
Our hope is that this information will be useful to media producers and editors when producing future materials. It will help them to avoid common traps, and to produce more innovative, useful and ethical pieces.
So many of these programmes and articles focus on complaining about other media (porn, fashion, online sex ed, etc.) and perpetuating panic and anxiety about sex. Instead we would like to see media taking a positive role in providing inclusive, well-researched, thoughtful and balanced, education about sex.
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Join us in London on 3rd November, and in Sheffield on 6th November for a couple of public events about sex, sexuality and sexualisation. We will be exploring common myths, assumptions and attitudes about sex and drawing on cutting edge scientific and social research to consider how we might look at things differently.
- What is normal sex? And who is having it?
- Is society becoming too sexualised?
- Are young people becoming sexual too early?
- What impact does pornography have on people?
- How can we find out what we’ll enjoy sexually? And how do we tell our partners about it?
- What secrets do sex therapists learn about what people get up to in the bedroom?
- Why was 50 Shades of Grey so popular?
- How common are sexual problems and what can be done about them?
- Where do our sexual desires come from?
- How do orgasms work?
- Can you get addicted to sex? Has the internet made this more of a risk?
- Sexually speaking, are men from mars and women from venus?
- What new rules are there for sexual relationships?
- When it comes to sex, what are the vital statistics?
The London day will begin with a speed debating session to get to know each other (1-2pm) and end with a question-time discussion (4-5pm) where you can put your queries and comments to a panel of experts. For the remainder of the afternoon we’ll be running a series of workshops, discussions and activities which you are welcome to pop in and out of, including sessions on body mapping and communicating about sex.
For the Sheffield evening we will just have a question-time style panel discussion and lots of time for debate.
Experts include Clarissa Smith (author of One for the Girls and regular expert witness in sex-related legal cases), Clare Bale (expert on sex in young people), Petra Boynton (sexologist and Agony Aunt for The Telegraph), Katherine Angel (historian of sex author of Unmastered), Feona Attwood (porn researcher and author of Mainstreaming Sex and porn.com) and Meg Barker (sex therapist and author of Rewriting the Rules).
For more detail of timings and venues click this link. We look forward to seeing you there…
Here are two posts by people who were present at the recent extreme pornography trial:
By Obscenity Lawyer, Myles Jackman.
The following blog on consent to sexual acts and representations was written a week after Michael Peacock’s acquittal and addresses the CPS’ guidelines on the OPA six-months prior to Simon Walsh’s Trial.There is an update at the end of the blog, written today, on the current state of the guidelines and the role of the CPS, BBFC and Met in reviewing them…“Would you welcome an Anal Prolapse?”
By Alex Dymock.
Extreme porn trial: well, thank you for that interesting anatomical lessonSimon Walsh’s case has shown the Crown Prosecution Service to have a rather prurient interest in other people’s sex livesI’m not sure if my mother, thrilled when I decided to study law, ever anticipated that this would involve me spending weeks in court live-tweeting about fisting and how best to stick metal rods down one’s penis. But it’s testament only to how extraordinary it is that Simon Walsh’s case at Kingston crown court ever reached this stage that I found myself doing exactly this. Read more…